Tuesday, November 26, 2024

BUDDHIST READING GROUP



Here are the ten books of the Buddhism Today Reading Group I joined this year. I joined in February and we don't meet in December, so this stack comprises the ten books I read and discussed each month. 

February
Standing at the Edge: Finding Freedom Where Fear and Courage Meet by Joan Halifax.

March
How to do Nothing: Resisting the Attention Economy by Jenny Odell.

April
Choosing Compassion: How to Be of Benefit in a World that Needs Our Love by Anam Thubten.

May
Zen in the Garden by Miki Sakamoto.

June
The Heroic Heart: Awakening Unbounded Compassion by Jetsunma Tenzin Palmo.

July
The Little Book of Zen Healing: Japanese Rituals for Beauty, Harmony, and Love by Paula Arai.

August
The World We Have: A Buddhist Approach to Peace and Ecology by Thich Nhat Hanh. 

September
One Long Listening: A Memoir of Grief, Friendship, and Spiritual Care by Chenxing Han.

October
Just One Thing: Developing a Buddha Brain One Simple Practice at a Time by Rick Hanson.

November
Awakening Dignity: A Guide to Living a Life of Deep Fulfillment by Phakchok Rinpoche and Sophie Wu.

My favorite book in the stack is One Long Listening by Chenxing Han, a spiritual memoir and meditations on grief by a Buddhist chaplain. It was intimate and vulnerable, exploratory and experimental, and provided a beautiful peek into both chaplaincy and friendship.



I also read an additional seven books that helped guide me, a couple of which were also read by the Buddhism Today Reading Group in prior years (with month and year in parentheses, if appropriate).
  • Essential Zen by Kazuaki Tanahashi and Tenzo David Schneider.
  • The Intimate Way of Zen: Effort, Surrender, and Awakening on the Spiritual Journey by James Ishmael Ford.
  • Living Buddha, Living Christ by Thich Nhat Hanh.
  • Luminous Darkness: An Engaged Buddhist Approach to Embracing the Unknown by Deborah Eden Tull.
  • The Spring of My Life and Selected Haiku by Kobayashi Issa, translated by Sam Hamill (April 2023).
  • We Were Made for These Times: Ten Lessons for Moving Through Change, Loss, and Disruption by Kaira Jewel Lingo (June 2022).
  • Zen Mind, Beginner's Mind by Shunryu Suzuki.
My favorite book of these seven, and one of the most helpful to me in defining my current spiritual path this past year, is The Intimate Way of Zen. James Ishmael Ford is both a Unitarian Universalist pastor and Zen priest. It is loosely based around the Ten Oxherding Pictures of Zen.



At the most recent Buddhist reading group meeting, our main facilitator invited me to sit with members of South Sound Zen, so I went and sat with them. It was spectacular and holy and absolutely ordinary, all at the same time. It felt like "coming home," a place that is familiar and where I am known.

After sitting (zazen) for 25 minutes, walking meditation for 10 minutes (my first experience of kinhin), and then another 25 minutes of sitting, I had the opportunity to sit and converse with the leader for the evening, Chuck. He's on the board of trustees of Sonoma Mountain Zen Center, which is who allows him to lead/teach with South Sound Zen. He had a Pentecostal upbringing and shared about trying to shift from that background to Soto Zen. We talked about Thomas Merton, Thich Nhat Hanh, and Daniel Berrigan. We talked about the decline of organized religion. All while eating lemon cookies and drinking green tea. I'll be returning to sit again.

Sunday, November 24, 2024

THE WHALE



The Whale (2022) directed by Darren Aronofsky. An adapted stage play, the “stage” is felt in the cinematography and choreography of the scenes. There is a claustrophobia that builds in the apartment of the morbidly obese and dying Charlie. And this apartment/stage is filled with broken people. Broken. People. Are they good? Are they evil? Or, are they simply broken? It’s a difficult film to inhabit at times, just as many of the characters find their lives difficult to inhabit. Notions of faith, freedom, health, relationship (family and friends), are grasped at and then slip away again. Herman Melville and Walt Whitman make “cameos” here and there. I thoroughly enjoyed this. The cast is stellar. The story may be honest, but brutally honest. I suppose there is redemption of a sort. Highly recommended.

After the wildness of Aronofsky’s Mother! (2017) this is a welcome return to a more grounded film.

Streaming on Netflix.

Friday, November 22, 2024

ALIEN: ROMULUS



Alien: Romulus (2024) directed by Fede Alvarez. Just to be clear, I was one of the few who actually liked and enjoyed Prometheus. If you didn't, but you defend the final creature in Romulus then I call bullshit and I'm going to punch you. Romulus is filled with action as well as worn and tired tropes borrowed from every Alien film that preceded it. And, in the case of the opening scenes in the mining colony, it is also borrows heavily from Blade Runner. This is the Alien film that pushes too far for me. The two leads, Rain and Andy, though, provide excellent performances as "new Ripley" and "the android."

This one's a mixed bag. If you aren't a fan of the franchise then I recommend a pass.

Streaming on Hulu.

Saturday, November 16, 2024

DRY



I stopped drinking alcohol on January 1, 2024, in what was a one-year commitment to myself. Now, I’ve decided to go permanently dry, so I have a few Deschutes brews that need to be released into the wild, since I’m retiring my beer cellar. I hope to find someone (or a few someones) to enjoy them, as I would have at one time in the past.

Sunday, November 10, 2024

WILL & HARPER



Will & Harper (2024) directed by Josh Greenbaum. It's a road trip buddy film, with an existential underpinning. It asks questions, but in a gentle way. It plays a bit too light with the hateful moments of others. There is a scene that makes me absolutely uncomfortable for Harper and the vulnerability she feels. Ultimately, though, it's a film with heart. Tender and loving. And it reminds me a bit of My Dinner with Andre, which is a good thing.

Streaming on Netflix.