Friday, March 08, 2024

THE MATTER of LONELINESS



I attended a two-day symposium, hosted by the Wang Center for Global and Community Engaged Education at Pacific Lutheran University. I was present at every presentation and workshop offered during "The Matter of Loneliness: Building Connections for Collective Well-Being." I'm glad I did because I learned a lot and ended exhausted, but with a full head and full heart.

The first day was focused on theory and the second day was focused on implementation. (Or "inside" and "outside" as PLU thought of the days.)




I left with a bunch of "takeaways" for my workplace and will be reaching out to various people and organizations to put learning into practice.

There were two fascinating workshops I experienced. The first was a Purpose Planning Workshop led by a facilitator from the Blue Zones Project. My top "gift," discovered during a "calling card" exercise was "Exploring the Way." I take it to be a lifelong search for meaning, tied to spiritual and religious practices, and bolstered by my gifts of creating art, writing, and organizing. The second was being present during a Braver Angels community debate between college students that explored whether or not everyone is entitled to a universal basic income. The structure of the debate allowed for constructive conversation without division. It turns out that most people gathered are in favor of some kind of universal basic income, whether on the right or the left, conservative or liberal; the difference comes in the details, such as who would fund such a program.




Both days had a great selection of speakers and thinkers. My favorites were:
  • Julia Watts Belser, Professor of Jewish Studies and Disability Studies Core Faculty, Georgetown University, with "Wild Kinship: Disability Wisdom, Interdependence, and the Elemental World."
  • Jenny Odell, writer and artist, with "How to Do Nothing."
  • Carolyn Finney, storyteller and cultural geographer, with "Our Story: Blackness, Belonging & Dreaming the Family Tree."
  • Mike Weiking, founder and CEO, The Happiness Project in Copenhagen, with "The Science of Happiness."

Sunday, March 03, 2024

DRIVE-AWAY DOLLS



The Wife and I saw Drive-Away Dolls (2024) directed by Ethan Coen, at The Grand Cinema in Tacoma.

I usually know a bit about a film before I see it. In the case of Drive-Away Dolls, all I knew came from the trailer. It appeared to be a blend of Thelma and Louise and Pulp Fiction. But, as they say, appearances can be deceiving. That is the case here. This is a lesbian romance road film that tries too hard. It's too quirky. It's too fragmented and disjointed. I was most intrigued to see Geraldine Viswanathan (Miracle Workers) in it but her character isn't really allowed to do anything and is mired in sadness. Geraldine's humor is stifled. And there are way too many dildo jokes and shots and scenes of dildoes. No joke. Spoiler alert: it's a major plot point. This is a pass unless you're a Coen Brothers completist; even then tread with caution.

Saturday, March 02, 2024

FLOWERING BONSAI



I have visited the Pacific Bonsai Museum many times, but have never been there in the spring when the trees are in bloom. I rectified that today.

Two of the flowering plum trees were in peak bloom. There were many other bonsai—juniper, sweet gum, Gravenstein apple, Japanese maple, azalea—with new growth. Buds and infant leaves were just starting to appear. I'm glad I visited!

Tuesday, February 27, 2024

TAIJI SWORD



Taiji sword work is completely different from iaido sword work. First, the sword is much lighter, which affects the movement of the blade through space. Second, the double-edged blade means I don't have to be as aware about which way the blade is facing. Third, the movements are slower and more deliberate, even though they aren't necessarily less powerful or dynamic.

This morning, I started working on "body geometry" (my term for it) with Master Shirley. The primary focuses of these early lessons were economy of movement, relaxed form, the sword as an extension of the arm, and moving along a plane. It has been great to remove rigidity from my stances, to apply circular motions toward the angles of the sword and my body, and to learn (again) how to channel energy as it spirals up from the ground while my body moves but my arms mostly don't (at least in relation to my body).

Saturday, February 24, 2024

ZERO at the BONE



That moment when you encounter a kindred soul.

In my recent faith explorations, I have discovered many overlapping books, articles, and authors. Books on Buddhism have pointed me to journals on Christianity. One of those is Comment magazine. A review on the Comment website of Christian Wiman's book Zero at the Bone: Fifty Entries Against Despair found me immediately driving to a nearby bookstore to pick up a copy for my upcoming "bachelor weekend."

I'm finding this mix of poems, quoted passages, short essays, meditations on life and death, and observations on God and faith speaks to my soul. This is the book that I needed for the here and the now. Amen!

Friday, February 23, 2024

Monday, February 19, 2024

FAKE CONFIDENCE



"I miss [my old teacher Miriam's] knack of knowing me and looking like all the answers of life belonged to her, even the impossible ones. I am an adult now and I feel no such surety; I hope I fake confidence as well as she did. Perhaps that is the role of a responsible person—to fake the confidence he doesn't feel so that the young can believe in something. Except there are no young ones any more. I'm not sure who I'm faking for."

The Beauty by Aliya Whiteley

Sunday, February 18, 2024

NIMONA



Tonight was Oscar Nominees movie night.

First up was "Live Action Short Film" The After (2023) directed by Misan Harriman. This film is the right length. Any longer and it would have lost its punch. A meditation on loss and grief. This one is a must see. Streaming on Netflix.
 
Next up was "Animated Feature Film" Nimona (2023) directed by Nick Bruno and Troy Quane. I had no idea what this would entail. It's a mix of mythology and monsters. But it's really a challenge to our current culture and the notion of conformity, or lack thereof. And it's about inclusivity (at the greatest end of the spectrum) and tolerance (at the least). And about the walls we build, literally and metaphorically. And about breaking down walls. And love. I will definitely be seeing this again. It was very well done. Streaming on Netflix.

Friday, February 16, 2024

WHITE RIVER DISC GOLF COURSE



It's been a while since I've played at White River.

I headed out this morning in 31ºF chill and was on the course before 8:00 a.m. I had the park to myself, except for a couple of walkers. When I left, just before 9:00 a.m., it had warmed to a balmy 35ºF but the sun was shining so it somewhat countered the cold.

If there was a tree, I hit it. And this course has a LOT of trees. To my credit, though, I had a lot of chain skims and basket hits. But those don't count as in, so those extra easy shots added up.

I had an excellent time, so the cold and trees and misses were all worth it!



Hole 1 - 3
Hole 2 - 3
Hole 3 - 3
Hole 4 - 5
Hole 5 - 6
Hole 6 - 5
Hole 7 - 4
Hole 8 - 4
Hole 9 - 3
Front nine - 36 (+9)

Hole 10 - 5
Hole 11 - 4
Hole 12 - 4
Hole 13 - 3
Hole 14 - 4
Hole 15 - 3
Hole 16 - 3
Hole 17 - 4
Hole 18 - 4
Back nine - 34 (+7)

Total - 70 (+16)




Since the last time I played, they put up new signage for the "short" course (red course), which was helpful. Plus there are red arrows hanging in the trees near baskets, pointing you to the next hole. Thanks to whomever took the time, energy, and effort to make the course very navigable.

Saturday, February 10, 2024

BREATHING UNDER WATER



For the past few years, I have felt myself to be in spiritual exile (which is a bit ironic since I work for a church), so I finally decided to do something about it. I have enrolled in a 15-week online course: Breathing Under Water through the Center for Action and Contemplation, based upon the work of Father Richard Rohr.



In addition to course work, videos, discussion forums, and the like that open each week, the core texts I am reading: 
  1. Breathing Under Water: Spirituality and the Twelve Steps.
  2. Breathing Under Water Companion Journal, which is really a study guide with additional explorations and questions.
  3. New Seeds of Contemplation by Thomas Merton.


What is fascinating to me, is the overlap of mystical Christianity, Zen Buddhism, and the Twelve Steps of Alcoholics Anonymous. I'm intrigued by the places where they find common ground, where they differ, and where they move forward into a better, beautiful world, lifting up others around them and into fellowship with the Divine (God).